How soon is too soon

December 7, 2018

How soon after a divorce do you move the person you cheated with and was the nail in your coffin to your divorce into the marital home?

So I had this long diatribe about how I think that people who do this are trifling and they will get their karma, but I am going to make a short post about it and see if I can engage you with this question.  Send me your thoughts or comment and tell me what you think of this question. Is there a timeframe and would you as a woman feel alright to sleep in the wife's bed and use her stuff or you are just a hoe and don't care?


Disclaimer for some y'all fast people:

This ent about me, just a thought that I had


Meli Mel

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    Mom and wife originally from the Caribbean island of St. Lucia and now reside in the United States. This blog is about the day to day things I see and sometimes may encounter in this fascinating world that we live in. Live life in concert with your values! Never be paralyzed! Don't wait for people to change!

      1. Well if I was the side piece, I wouldn’t want to sleep in the ex wife’s bed period. That is some bad juju.
        If I was the long suffering wife, I wouldn’t care either beciSe I’d have the house and will sleep just fine in our former bed. They can find a next house and bed to sleep in.

        So there’s that lol

      1. Personally I believe a woman needs to have enough self worth to demand that she not be disrespected by being expected to move into any Exs house. But then again if you are a homewrecker you dont know too much about self respect….. once she moves in she has to sleep with one eye open waiting for her turn, when karma comes knocking

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