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Forgiving or Unburdening

  • October 1, 2019
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Many of you may or may not know that I am a tv junkie. Recently I was re-watching Diary of a Mad Black Woman for the trillionth time and the forgiveness scene out of it just resonated with me today: Myrtle : You know I know this man put a hurtin' on you baby, but you've got to forgive him. No matter what he done, you've got to forgive him - not for him, but for you. When some body hurts you they take…

Platonic relationships

  • August 26, 2019
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We were having an office conversation and the topic fell on married couples having platonic relationships/friendships and what were my views on it. I personally feel that men and women can have platonic relationships/friendships with parties outside of their marriage. It is up to the individuals to see when and if the so-called platonic relationship/friendship is going in the weird zone to pump some brakes on it. I have a few (and by few I am counting them on one…

Shared office space etiquette

  • August 12, 2019
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Many companies are opting to share office spaces with either built in office cubicles, where there is a door for each cubicle but we still sharing the big space or half divider cubicles. Either or still means you do not have a lot of privacy and also have to be very discreet about things you do. 3 rules that I abide by since I am in a shared office space: Keep my private phone conversations out of the office spaceKeep…

What is the fascination with baby showers?

  • August 7, 2019
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Recently I was invited to a baby shower and despite me telling this person way before she was even pregnant that I don't do nor do I believe in baby showers to never invite me to one. I guess she thought she had the magical touch to make me change my mind and still invited me to hers and send me a reminder after I ignored the first one...uhh no I don't do showers and I am not coming to…