Forgiving or Unburdening

Many of you may or may not know that I am a tv junkie. Recently I was re-watching Diary of a Mad Black Woman for the trillionth time and the forgiveness scene out of it just resonated with me today: Myrtle : You know I know this man put a hurtin' on you baby, but you've got to forgive him. No matter what he done, you've got to forgive him - not for him, but for you. When some body hurts you they take…

Platonic relationships

We were having an office conversation and the topic fell on married couples having platonic relationships/friendships and what were my views on it. I personally feel that men and women can have platonic relationships/friendships with parties outside of their marriage. It is up to the individuals to see when and if the so-called platonic relationship/friendship is going in the weird zone to pump some brakes on it. I have a few (and by few I am counting them on one…

Shared office space etiquette

Many companies are opting to share office spaces with either built in office cubicles, where there is a door for each cubicle but we still sharing the big space or half divider cubicles. Either or still means you do not have a lot of privacy and also have to be very discreet about things you do. 3 rules that I abide by since I am in a shared office space: Keep my private phone conversations out of the office spaceKeep…

What is the fascination with baby showers?

Recently I was invited to a baby shower and despite me telling this person way before she was even pregnant that I don't do nor do I believe in baby showers to never invite me to one. I guess she thought she had the magical touch to make me change my mind and still invited me to hers and send me a reminder after I ignored the first one...uhh no I don't do showers and I am not coming to…