Communication and Respect in a relationship

Yesterday I wrote on my Fassbook that my in-laws celebrated their 41st wedding anniversary and was over-whelmed at the amount of likes that I got.  Just recently my husband was telling me that someone asked his mom, how she kept up with his dad and her response was why do I need to keep up with him.  So I went on discussing with him about how this is amazing that his parents have been married for so long and we…