You can’t have your cake and eat it too….

So I am here thinking of this Kevin Hart situation and as much as I like him, that dude is trifling.  You cheating on your pregnant wife dude!  Like seriously.  I have always said that I don’t think some celebrities or athletes should get married young…they need to be out there exploring or like Coming to America said “Sewing their royal oats” (using protection of course, cause that die slow eh).  As you can see a good bit of them always straying and have to come up with some kiss meh ass apology.  Save y’all selves the headache…don’t get married young.

The one thing I will say to all cheaters (cause y’all know y’all are cheaters) don’t get married if you want to have your cake and eat it too.  Or if that is your thing, you lay it out on the table, “babes I want to be with you, come home to you at nights but I want to see other people too”…If the person down for it then they will make that decision, but don’t take it upon yourself to be eating your cake and don’t want to share it too.


Now y’all have me going up in the dictionary to be politically correct. Marriage is the legally or formally recognized union of two people as partners in a personal relationship. If you know you want to have multiple relations, simple don’t get married.  Or if you feel you don’t want to be with that person, close that door before you open another one.  Y’all out there just embarrassing your significant others with scallywags and then if you get served with divorce papers or get taken to the cleaners, you want to cry.  Stop your mess and if you want to be single, stay damn single and stop messing with people’s emotions. One of the reasons why the show Snapped was created (well maybe that is not one of the reasons, but I am just saying).

Let me step off from my soapbox now!

Just a few more images first doh!  Think about it!


Meli Mel




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