Forgiving or Unburdening

Many of you may or may not know that I am a tv junkie. Recently I was re-watching Diary of a Mad Black Woman for the trillionth time and the forgiveness scene out of it just resonated with me today: Myrtle : You know I know this man put a hurtin' on you baby, but you've got to forgive him. No matter what he done, you've got to forgive him - not for him, but for you. When some body hurts you they take…