Some Versions of You Only Exist in Survival Mode
Survival mode builds real strength; but it also closes doors. Here’s an honest reflection on what it means to come back to yourself after a season of just holding on.
Survival mode builds real strength; but it also closes doors. Here’s an honest reflection on what it means to come back to yourself after a season of just holding on.
Recently, I changed companies, but not careers. I am still doing the same work, carrying the same experience, perspective, and understanding of what I bring to the table. On paper, very little changed. And yet, the transition reminded me how much belonging is shaped by environment. The same qualities that felt understood in one space
Honestly, for a long time, I was very vocal on certain subjects and noticeably quiet on others. I spoke confidently where I felt safe, where my opinions aligned with what was expected, and where my voice would be affirmed rather than questioned. But on topics that felt more layered, more personal, or more likely to
I used to write St. Lucia Carnival reviews. Not just band launches and portrayals, I also reviewed the parties, even brought my daughter along to do reviews. The energy. The promoters. The vibes. The chaos. The unspoken politics. And if I’m honest, a lot of people didn’t come for cultural analysis. They came for the